Achieving More By Giving Yourself Deadlines
Achieving More By Giving Yourself Deadlines by Dennis
Harting
Procrastination seems to be a companion for most of us. Given
enough leeway, we will put most anything off that we can. This is
especially true for the activities we deem difficult. It seems that
human nature is to put things off until the last moment and then
rush to get them done. In fact, there are many people who take
tremendous pride in being able to get things done just in the nick
of time.
Life has a way of delivering deadlines. April 15th is one that
comes to mind. The bills that we have due each month all have a
payment due date. Projects at work must be completed by the next
meeting. And, of course, there is a time at which we must meet the
in-laws. Unfortunately, a missed deadline has a variety of negative
consequences. The pressure associated with this adds to the chaotic
state that we tend to operate in under this scenario. This is when
many of us experience overwhelm.
Nevertheless, deadlines seem to be some of the best motivators.
Regardless of the pressure of the situation, people have a tendency
to step up when given a deadline. Basically, they get it done.
Sometimes it is a “fly of the cuff’ at the last
possible minute or it can be a larger project broken down into time
segments to meet it. Either way, they motivate us to get busy
taking action.
How can we use this to our advantage without adding to the stress
in our lives? The answer is to impose our own deadlines. When we
set the timeframe, we thus dictate the pace at which we operate.
This gives us control over the situation while relieving the
pressure that others (people or institutions) put on us.
Procrastination tends to happen until a deadline is set. If there
is no deadline, we will put something off forever. Is there
anything around the house that you were meaning to fix for the past
few years (or decades)? In these situations, implement a
self-imposed deadline to finish the activity. Commit to having it
done by that date. Act as if your life depended on getting it done.
Suddenly, you will find the time to do it.
If a deadline already exists, the way to control the situation is
to create your own deadline ahead of the other one. This allows for
some leeway in case of something unforeseen. The pressure is
lessened since it is you applying it rather than someone or
something outside of yourself. Naturally, be aware of the desire to
procrastinate because you realize that your deadline is not the
“real” one. Again, approach the activity as if your
life depended upon getting it done by that date you set. You will
quickly see yourself getting more done with less stress.
Dennis Harting is the Head Coach at Your Rich Life. He is an
acclaimed speaker, trainer, and author. His international best
selling books include Your Easiest Million and The Ultimate
Procrastination Handbook. His programs and more information can be
found at http://www.yourrichlifeinc.com.
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